As someone who has tasted the sweet nectar of independence, I can tell you it’s both exhilarating and terrifying. I remember the day I moved out of my parents’ house, standing in my empty apartment, surrounded by boxes and uncertainty. That moment of realization – that I was truly on my own – hit me like a tidal wave of emotions.
Music has always been my anchor, my way of processing life’s big moments. And let me tell you, there’s no shortage of songs that capture the essence of independence.
In this playlist, I’ve compiled 20 songs that resonate deeply with the concept of independence. These tracks have been my companions through late nights of self-doubt, celebratory moments of personal victory, and quiet reflections on growth.
Contents
- 1. “King Of Anything” by Sara Bareilles
- 2. “Independence Day” by Martina McBride
- 3. “Control” by Janet Jackson
- 4. “Independent” by Salt-N-Pepa
- 5. “Try It On My Own” by Whitney Houston
- 6. “Bird Set Free” by Sia
- 7. “Stronger” by Britney Spears
- 8. “Miss Independent” by Ne-Yo
- 9. “Follow Your Arrow” by Kacey Musgraves
- 10. “Breakaway” by Kelly Clarkson
- 11. “Confident” by Demi Lovato
- 12. “It’s My Life” by Bon Jovi
- 13. “I Will Survive” by Gloria Gaynor
- 14. “I Won’t Back Down” by Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers
- 15. “Free” by Ultra Naté
- 16. “Unwritten” by Natasha Bedingfield
- 17. “Independent Women, Pt. 1” by Destiny’s Child
- 18. “Wide Open Spaces” by The Chicks
- 19. “It’s My Life” by No Doubt
- 20. “Soar” by Christina Aguilera
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1. “King Of Anything” by Sara Bareilles
“King Of Anything” is a song by Sara Bareilles from her 2010 album Kaleidoscope Heart. The song was released as the album’s lead single and produced by Neal Avron. It is a pop-rock track that serves as a strong declaration of self-empowerment and independence. The lyrics express Bareilles’ frustration with unsolicited advice and opinions from others, encapsulated in the line, “You’ve got opinions, man, we’re all entitled to ’em, but I never asked.” The song is essentially a musical retort to those who try to control or dictate her life, emphasizing her desire to live on her own terms. Despite its empowering message, the song maintains a light and catchy melody, making it both an anthem of independence and a radio-friendly hit.
2. “Independence Day” by Martina McBride
“Independence Day” is a powerful country song by Martina McBride, written by Gretchen Peters and released in 1994 as part of her album The Way That I Am. The song tells the story from the perspective of an 8-year-old girl whose mother is a victim of domestic abuse. The title serves as a double entendre, referring both to the U.S. holiday and the mother’s act of reclaiming her freedom by burning down the house to escape her abusive husband. The song’s chorus, “Let freedom ring, let the white dove sing,” has led to its misinterpretation as a patriotic anthem, but its true message is about personal liberation and the fight against domestic violence. Despite initial resistance from radio programmers due to its heavy subject matter, the song has become one of McBride’s signature tracks and is celebrated for its courageous storytelling.
3. “Control” by Janet Jackson
“Control” is the title track from Janet Jackson’s 1986 album Control. Written by Jackson, James Harris III, and Terry Lewis, and produced by Jimmy Jam and Terry Lewis, the song marks a significant moment in Jackson’s career as she asserts her independence from her father and former manager, Joe Jackson. The lyrics narrate Jackson’s journey to taking control of her own life and career, moving from a place of compliance to one of self-determination. The song’s funk-infused production and confident vocals underscore its themes of autonomy and empowerment. “Control” was a commercial success, peaking at number five on the Billboard Hot 100 and earning Jackson critical acclaim. The accompanying music video further emphasizes the narrative of breaking free and taking charge, featuring Jackson preparing for and performing at a concert.
4. “Independent” by Salt-N-Pepa
“Independent” by Salt-N-Pepa, featuring Sybil, is a track from their 1990 album Blacks’ Magic. The song is a celebration of female independence and empowerment, with lyrics that encourage women to stand strong and take control of their lives. The verses, delivered with characteristic sass and confidence, reject the notion that women need to rely on men for their success or happiness. The chorus, “Woman and I am independent, I make my own money so don’t tell me how to spend it,” encapsulates the song’s message of self-sufficiency and empowerment. The track combines elements of hip-hop and new jack swing, making it both a danceable and empowering anthem for women everywhere.
5. “Try It On My Own” by Whitney Houston
“Try It On My Own” is a pop ballad by Whitney Houston from her fifth studio album, Just Whitney (2002). Written by Babyface, Carole Bayer Sager, Jason Edmonds, Aleese Simmons, and Nathan Walton, the song was released as a single on February 11, 2003. The lyrics revolve around themes of self-reliance and overcoming fears to achieve personal independence. Houston’s powerful vocals convey a message of empowerment, as she sings about taking control of her life and proving her capabilities without external assistance. The song received positive reviews, with critics highlighting it as one of the album’s standout tracks. The accompanying music video, directed by David LaChapelle, features Houston performing at the historic Lyric Theater in Miami, symbolizing her journey towards self-actualization and independence.
6. “Bird Set Free” by Sia
“Bird Set Free” is a song by Sia from her seventh studio album, This Is Acting (2016). Released as the first promotional single on November 4, 2015, the song was originally written for the Pitch Perfect 2 soundtrack but was ultimately kept by Sia. It is a piano-based power ballad that explores themes of emotional liberation and self-empowerment. The lyrics describe breaking free from constraints and finding one’s voice, with the chorus proclaiming, “I don’t care if I sing off key, I find myself in my melodies, I sing for love, I sing for me.” Critics praised the song for its uplifting message and Sia’s emotive delivery. “Bird Set Free” has been featured in various media, including the end credits of the film The Shallows and the opening credits of Unforgettable.
7. “Stronger” by Britney Spears
“Stronger” is a dance-pop and synth-pop song by Britney Spears from her second studio album, Oops!… I Did It Again (2000). Released as a single on October 31, 2000, the song was written and produced by Max Martin and Rami. The lyrics focus on self-empowerment and moving on from a toxic relationship. Spears sings about gaining strength and independence after being let down by a cheating partner, with the chorus declaring, “I’m stronger than yesterday, now it’s nothing but my way.” The song was a commercial success, receiving acclaim for its empowering message and innovative production. The music video, directed by Joseph Kahn, features Spears asserting her independence and strength, further reinforcing the song’s themes.
8. “Miss Independent” by Ne-Yo
“Miss Independent” is an R&B song by Ne-Yo from his album Year of the Gentleman (2008). The song celebrates strong, self-sufficient women who are confident and capable of handling their own lives. The lyrics highlight the allure of a woman who is independent and doesn’t rely on anyone else for her success or happiness. Ne-Yo admires her for her confidence, poise, and ability to manage her responsibilities, singing, “She got her own thing, that’s why I love her.” The song’s upbeat tempo and motivational message have made it a popular anthem for empowerment and self-reliance. Critics and fans alike have praised “Miss Independent” for its positive portrayal of female independence and strength.
9. “Follow Your Arrow” by Kacey Musgraves
“Follow Your Arrow” is a country song by Kacey Musgraves from her debut album Same Trailer Different Park (2013). Written by Musgraves, Brandy Clark, and Shane McAnally, the song encourages listeners to live authentically and make choices that feel right for them, regardless of societal expectations or judgments. The lyrics, “Make lots of noise / Kiss lots of boys / Or kiss lots of girls if that’s something you’re into,” highlight themes of self-acceptance and personal freedom. The song was both celebrated and criticized for its progressive messages, especially in the conservative country music scene. Despite the mixed reactions, “Follow Your Arrow” became an anthem for individuality and won the Song of the Year at the 2014 CMA Awards.
10. “Breakaway” by Kelly Clarkson
“Breakaway” is a pop-rock song by Kelly Clarkson from her second studio album of the same name, released in 2004. Initially written by Avril Lavigne, Matthew Gerrard, and Bridget Benenate for Lavigne’s debut album, the song found its home with Clarkson. The lyrics describe the journey of leaving a familiar environment to pursue one’s dreams, reflecting Clarkson’s own experiences of breaking away from her small-town life to achieve stardom. The chorus, “I’ll spread my wings and I’ll learn how to fly / I’ll do what it takes till I touch the sky,” captures the essence of taking risks and striving for personal growth. The song became a massive hit, resonating with listeners for its relatable message of empowerment and self-discovery.
11. “Confident” by Demi Lovato
“Confident” is a pop song by Demi Lovato from her 2015 album Confident. Written by Lovato, Ilya Salmanzadeh, Max Martin, and Savan Kotecha, the song is a bold declaration of self-assurance and resilience. The lyrics, “What’s wrong with being confident?” challenge societal norms that often discourage women from being assertive and self-assured. Lovato’s powerful vocals and the song’s energetic production make it an anthem of empowerment. The track reflects Lovato’s personal journey of overcoming struggles and embracing her identity, making it a significant statement of independence and self-worth.
12. “It’s My Life” by Bon Jovi
“It’s My Life” is a rock song by Bon Jovi from their 2000 album Crush. Written by Jon Bon Jovi, Richie Sambora, and Max Martin, the song became an anthem for living life on one’s own terms. The lyrics, “It’s my life / It’s now or never / I ain’t gonna live forever / I just want to live while I’m alive,” emphasize the importance of seizing the moment and taking control of one’s destiny. The song features classic Bon Jovi elements, such as Sambora’s talk box and references to their earlier hit “Livin’ on a Prayer.” “It’s My Life” resonated with a broad audience, becoming a rallying cry for personal empowerment and resilience.
13. “I Will Survive” by Gloria Gaynor
“I Will Survive” is a disco anthem by Gloria Gaynor, released in October 1978 as the second single from her sixth album, Love Tracks. Written by Freddie Perren and Dino Fekaris, the song’s lyrics describe the narrator’s journey of discovering personal strength and resilience following a devastating breakup. The song quickly became a symbol of female empowerment and a beacon of hope for the LGBT community, with its message of overcoming adversity and thriving despite challenges. The empowering chorus, “I will survive / Oh, as long as I know how to love, I know I’ll stay alive,” has made it a timeless anthem of independence and self-empowerment. “I Will Survive” topped the Billboard Hot 100 and the UK Singles Chart, and it has been preserved in the National Recording Registry for its cultural significance.
14. “I Won’t Back Down” by Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers
“I Won’t Back Down” is a rock song by Tom Petty from his 1989 solo album Full Moon Fever. Co-written with Jeff Lynne, the song is a powerful declaration of resilience and determination. The lyrics, “Well, I won’t back down / No, I won’t back down / You can stand me up at the gates of hell / But I won’t back down,” emphasize the importance of standing firm in the face of adversity. The song has been used as an anthem for various struggles, resonating with listeners who face personal and collective challenges. It has been adopted by political campaigns, sports events, and personal stories of triumph, making it a universal symbol of resolve and independence.
15. “Free” by Ultra Naté
“Free” is a house-influenced dance anthem by Ultra Naté, released in 1997 as the lead single from her third studio album, Situation: Critical. Co-written by Naté, Lem Springsteen, and John Ciafone, the song combines elements of 1990s soul, dance-pop, garage, and disco. The lyrics promote self-empowerment and living life authentically, with the chorus, “You’re free / To do what you want to do.” The song became a global hit, reaching number one in Italy and topping dance charts in the US. It is celebrated for its uplifting message and has become an enduring anthem of independence and freedom, particularly within the LGBT community.
16. “Unwritten” by Natasha Bedingfield
“Unwritten” is a pop song by Natasha Bedingfield, released in 2004 as the lead single from her debut album of the same name. Co-written with Danielle Brisebois and Wayne Rodrigues, the song encourages listeners to embrace the unknown and live life to its fullest potential. The lyrics, “Feel the rain on your skin / No one else can feel it for you / Only you can let it in,” emphasize personal growth and self-discovery. “Unwritten” quickly became an anthem for self-empowerment and has been featured in various media, including the opening theme for the TV series The Hills. Its message of hope and potential continues to resonate with audiences, making it a timeless celebration of independence.
17. “Independent Women, Pt. 1” by Destiny’s Child
“Independent Women, Pt. 1” is a song by Destiny’s Child, released in 2000 as part of the soundtrack for the film Charlie’s Angels and later included in their third studio album, Survivor (2001). Written by Beyoncé Knowles, Sam Barnes, and Jean-Claude Olivier, the song celebrates female independence and self-sufficiency. The lyrics, “The shoes on my feet, I bought it / The clothes I’m wearing, I bought it,” emphasize the importance of women being financially and emotionally independent. The song became a commercial success, topping the Billboard Hot 100 for eleven consecutive weeks. Its empowering message and catchy beat have made it an enduring anthem for women asserting their independence and self-worth.
18. “Wide Open Spaces” by The Chicks
“Wide Open Spaces” is a country song by The Chicks (formerly known as The Dixie Chicks), released in 1998 as the title track of their major-label debut album. Written by Susan Gibson, the song tells the story of a young woman leaving home to explore the world and find her own path. The lyrics, “She needs wide open spaces / Room to make her big mistakes,” capture the essence of seeking independence and personal growth. The song resonated with many listeners, particularly young women, and became a significant hit, reaching number one on the U.S. Country singles chart. Its themes of adventure, self-discovery, and the courage to embrace new opportunities make it a fitting addition to any playlist about independence.
19. “It’s My Life” by No Doubt
“It’s My Life” is a cover of the 1984 song by Talk Talk, recorded by No Doubt for their 2003 greatest hits album, The Singles 1992–2003. The song was produced by Nellee Hooper and features a blend of rock and new wave elements. The lyrics, “It’s my life / Don’t you forget,” emphasize taking control of one’s destiny and living life on one’s own terms. No Doubt’s version was a commercial success, reaching number 10 on the Billboard Hot 100 and earning a Grammy nomination. The accompanying music video, directed by David LaChapelle, features Gwen Stefani in a 1920s-1930s art deco setting, further underscoring the theme of independence and self-assertion.
20. “Soar” by Christina Aguilera
“Soar” is a motivational ballad by Christina Aguilera from her 2002 album Stripped. Written by Rob Hoffman and Heather Holley, the song encourages listeners to embrace their true selves and pursue their dreams without fear. The lyrics, “Don’t be scared to fly alone / Find a path that is your own,” highlight themes of self-empowerment and resilience. Aguilera’s powerful vocals and the song’s uplifting message make it an anthem for anyone seeking to overcome obstacles and achieve personal independence. “Soar” reflects Aguilera’s own journey of self-discovery and artistic freedom, making it a poignant addition to a playlist about independence.
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Serena Whitfield is the founder of PlaylistCurator.org. She’s a musician who writes songs for bands. She studied music at the University of Oxford and graduated with distinction. With her expertise, she knows how to review songs and understand what makes good and bad music. Every playlist on our platform is approved by her before publishing to maintain top-notch quality. If you want her to check out your song and maybe get featured on our playlist, submit your song for Serena to evaluate.